Wed 27 Feb 2008
I just wrote this long random post, looked back into the archives to see when I planted my tomatoes last year, and realized that it was my blogiversary. How about that! I won’t try to do a retrospective. I’m looking toward the future right now.
Last night I looked at the found object jewelry/sculpture class that I signed up for at Art and Soul, and I changed my mind. It looked totally fascinating, BUT I registered for it when I still thought that I was going to be making paper and books in Italy, and when I hoped that one of the three collage/paper/multimedia workshops I signed up for in Greensboro would make. None of this things panned out, and I realized, damn, I still want to take a class in multimedia techniques and bookmaking, and I’m having a hard time getting excited about making jewelry again right now. So I changed my classes. In that two-day class’s place I’ll take two one-day classes - one in book making, and one in fabric collage techniques. I figure that I’ll learn a lot of new things in the first two classes (the first is carving stamps) and the third will be more familiar and relaxing, and I can use all three classes in my plans to make books and art journals and whatever. I need some focus and putting some limits on my direction will help me. Flying out in all directions is great for some people, but it overwhelms me.
I just wish that there were some book art classes nearby. But it’s kind of nice not to be tied down to a regular time every week. Other than work.
I received an interesting phone call today. Looks like a reporter for the News and Record is going to interview me again - a different reporter who wants to focus on somebody who is on a journey of “going green.” The other article, almost two years ago, focused on the Eat Local Challenge and being a locavore. It didn’t directly address the ecological aspects of what I’m trying to do. So this one will probably focus more on the sustainable lifestyle changes that we have made and since it will be in June instead of next week, thank God, I’ll have the garden going and we can talk about composting, rain barrels, organic methods, recycling cardboard and newspaper as mulch, earthworms and beneficial insects and such. I will try to get in there my efforts to reuse before recycling or buying, and to consider the impact and sources of the stuff that we do buy. I think that it will be a much more interesting article, at least for me! Maybe by that time we’ll have a new fuel-efficient car.
The interview was originally going to be tomorrow, and this house is a wreck, as usual, and one night would not have been enough for me to make it acceptable for company. The thought of what might have been did shame me into cleaning the toilet and washing the dishes. I had to spend some time in the Back Forty putting plastic sheeting over the row tunnels. It’s very windy and the lows are supposed to be in the low 20s tonight. Those little seedlings may have been okay, but why take a chance?
I’ve decided to wait until March 8 to plant my tomatoes. That will be the day after the new moon. My tomato seedlings always get way too big before it’s warm enough to plant them outside. I’m trying to stop making the same mistakes over and over. Last year I planted them (inside) on Feb. 8. Sometimes restraint is needed in gardening.
February 27th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
happy blogimaversary!
i admire your tomato-planting restraint. i’ll try to follow suit. if i can hold out that long!
February 28th, 2008 at 9:51 am
Happy Blog Birthday! I always enjoy coming here to see how your garden is growing.
February 28th, 2008 at 11:06 am
Happy Three to “Slowly she turned”!!! Here is to many more.
February 28th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Yay! Congrats on turning three.
Can I request a post??? I have so many people who used to come to my (now gone) blog who would argue with me that eating healthy/fresh/local/organic/whatever is too expensive.
I just joined a discussion today on another blog where women are talking about grocery prices being so high and they’re feeding their kids hamburger helper on BOGO specials, and they think fresh produce is too expensive. I’ve been told so many times by these women that they “just cannot afford to eat better.” I try to point them to resources, and they won’t hear of it.
I’ve learned that most people are just too lazy to try and do better with eating.
So want to write a post and help me out???
February 28th, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Tell you what. I know that I’ve addressed this in the archives - I’ll take a look for it.
The gist of my argument (and everyone who has actually TRIED cooking whole foods knows this) is that people either do not have the time, the energy, or simply the willingness to cook good food from scratch. It’s also a matter of priorities. People who care about what goes into their bodies make that effort. People who don’t, don’t. If they are so entrenched in denial that they prioritize other things over their children’s health, there is nothing you can do. Their parents probably brought them up that way.
So my question is, if you have pointed them to these resources, and they don’t bother to check them out, why waste your precious energy on convincing them? There are plenty of people who do want this information and want to know where to begin. But I’ve found that preaching the food gospel to people who don’t care is pointless. I should know, I’m married to one. It doesn’t make him a bad person. Yeah, it pisses me off because we’re both gonna pay one day when he has his heart attack. But I’ve learned when to quit. In the end, you can only help yourself and your children and try to be an example that others want to follow.
February 28th, 2008 at 5:38 pm
Local Food and Wal-Mart
and
On not handling the truth
It’s a sad, sad subject.
February 28th, 2008 at 5:50 pm
Whoa, wait a minute! Your “now gone” blog! What happened?
February 28th, 2008 at 6:47 pm
Mostly, I just quietly cook my own food, make meals from scratch and if people want to ask, they can. I quit trying to convince people years ago. And when people ask me why/how I’m debt free, or why I choose to live in a humble house, I ask them if they want the long answer or the short one. I don’t want to waste my breath and time. (Here in So Cal I had to choose between high mortgage with yard and no/low mortgage with small, small area for gardening–guess which I chose. I can buy fresh food at the farmers market and support the local farmers. Peaceful sleep without worrying about $$ is important to me.)
Willow is now off her soap box.
February 28th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
Oh! And Happy 3rd Birthday to Slowly She Turned!
February 28th, 2008 at 9:39 pm
Thank you for the links. I posted them over there and I’m done. Like you said, it isn’t worth my breath to argue with someone who doesn’t want to change anyway.
It is on a “christian” blog for moms and the topic always turns to saving money and let me tell you, these Christian women are rabid about saving a buck. Your coupon savings of the week is a sign of holiness in some circles and I’m NOT EVEN KIDDING!!!
Anyhow, the older I get the less I worry about other people’s choices—I let this food arguement get to me because their reasoning for not eating healthy is so stupid! Stupid people bug me. Really badly
The blog is gone for several reasons. I just got tired of it for one. What started as a fun hobby developed into this job-like thing that I started to resent, if that makes sense. Second, I was getting all these nasty comments and emails. The bigger it got, the more it was to manage. People were emailing me wanting to know my position in everything from toilet paper to political candidates. I quickly realized that “popularlity” wasn’t all it was cracked up to be.
Third, I’m going back to teaching in the fall and I didn’t really want an employer (especially a principal) drudging up stuff I’d written about three years ago…not that they are supposed to do that, but they do.
Fourth, I’m in this season of finding myself spiritually, mentally, emotionally, whatever-ally! I have come out of really oppressive fundamentalism and let me tell you, one does not take many friends when she decides to start asking religious questions. (part of the reason I was getting nasty comments). I’ve found I’m way too moderate for the conservative Christian blog circle that my readership was once built upon.
So I quit. I really don’t miss it!!! I do miss writing, but I’ve found something else to do with that talent (or lack thereof). I’m sitting down each night with the laptop and writing a letter to my children. I write about the things I’d write about on the blog—everything from food to politics to religion. When I get enough fodder, I plan on printing it off, sending it to Kinko’s and having it bound. Then one day when I’m dead and gone the kids can see all the stupid stuff in my brain
February 28th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
Happy 3rd! I do enjoy reading you.
February 29th, 2008 at 9:20 am
Lindsey, I am so happy for you! Thank you for reading here. I have enjoyed reading about your journey through our emails and comments. I have learned a lot from you.